Dr Wil’s Summary of The Diary Of A CEO - Jordan Peterson - Jan 3 2022
Jordan Peterson: How To Become The Person You’ve Always Wanted To Be
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📌 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
1. Radical Honesty > Pretending
“When you lie, you wear a mask. Eventually, there’s nothing underneath.”
Don’t live as a character in someone else’s story—speak your truth, even if it’s messy.
2. Don’t Tolerate What You Can Walk Away From
Hate your job? Start building an exit—quietly and powerfully.
“Fix your résumé. Make offers. Become your best self, then negotiate—or leave.”
3. Change Starts With What You Already Know
Sit alone and ask:
“What am I doing wrong that I could fix, and would fix?”
You already know the answer. You’re just afraid to look at it.
4. Purpose Is Uphill. That’s the Point.
We’re not built to sit on mountaintops.
“You want a goal you never quite attain. That’s where meaning lives.”
Struggle makes life tolerable—not comfort.
5. Real Life Beats Virtual Life
Phones aren’t tools. They’re a rewiring of the human condition.
University, offices, friendship—need body, voice, timing, space.
6. Pandemic = Political Theater
“Covid policies weren’t science. They were fear in disguise.”
Real science accepts nuance, trade-offs, and self-correction.
7. Help Others by Listening, Not Fixing
Want to help someone?
“Ask them what they need to hear or do to feel okay. Then shut up and listen.”
You are not their solution—they are.
8. Don’t Chase Happiness. Aim for Meaning.
“Happiness is elevator music. Meaning is blues.”
Meaning holds awe and grief at once. That’s what makes it real.
💡 KEY INSIGHT:
Tell the truth. Clean your room. Walk uphill. It’s not easy—but it’s what makes life worth living.
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